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31 minutes ago by laurieg

A couple of stand-out memories from the olden days (and I don't consider myself particularly old):

Getting a call in a restaurant. Only happened to me once but I certainly felt like a VIP.

Carrying a tiny map book of London around with me while cycling around. Missing turn after turn until finding there was a canal which basically took me from the center to my uncle's house.

Arranging to meet a friend and then being late. Really late. 1 hour late. He was still there, waiting for me.

24 minutes ago by xwolfi

Yeah I remember waiting for people - I got a smartphone at 16, in 2004, something like that, so it's hard to really imagine how it was for adults...

My parents told me they spend evenings at the phone booth talking to each other - but even that is ultra convenient compared to my grandparents sending letters :D

But I think it's better anyway - we sample mating candidates more, we cycle through faster, we can stop and try anew nearly any time until 50, and with some difficulty above.

I mean my aunt had a crushing divorce when she had 3 young children and stayed alone working with all 3 until the internet arrived and she could find a partner much faster...

11 minutes ago by noisy_boy

> My parents told me they spend evenings at the phone booth talking to each other - but even that is ultra convenient compared to my grandparents sending letters :D

No need to get to the grandparents' generation, I was the letter writer of my family :) I wrote letters to uncles/aunts/grandpa - mostly at the command of my mum or grandma and sometimes for myself. I remember rushing to the window when the postman yelled and dropped letters through the grill - sometimes there would be more than one! The excitement was palpable - now we sigh with annoyance at the barrage of nonsense and spam that flows into our inbox. Truly a case of quantity over quality.

18 minutes ago by KineticLensman

A couple of things not mentioned:

* Half of the population watching the same episodes of the same programme simultaneously. If you missed an episode, it was gone forever

* Inane arguments in pubs about facts that couldn't be instantly googled.

12 minutes ago by ASalazarMX

> * Inane arguments in pubs about facts that couldn't be instantly googled.

I don't miss those. Before the Internet, if it wasn't on an encyclopedia and you weren't at the library, you had no way of corroborating information.

On the other hand, since facts are so accessible right now, those arguments have shifted to voicing their feelings and wishes because those can't be falsified.

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2 minutes ago by stonekyx

Very nicely written. Made me feel nostalgic of the faint memories when I was a kid.

Not really the main theme of this article, but I guess I do lack the courage of approaching a woman for her number and asking her out these days. Can't imagine how hard that is in real life.

2 minutes ago by legrande

You can still live like what's described in this article. Get yourself a dumbphone and a paper atlas, only pay with cash, avoid loyalty cards, read paper books, newspapers, etc

Now and then I do that, just to switch off from our hyper-connected world. Switching off is the new peace of mind.

12 minutes ago by gopalv

> Were those the good old days?

I've heard this from several generations that the time when you were still under the protection of parents, but not their attention are the "good old days" of your life - like if your biggest worry if you flipped a car was "My dad will kill me!" and not "phew, not a scratch on me & my friends are all alive".

Must be the youth and opportunity of that phase of life rather than the actual era in the world (just look at a "2007 was the best year in video games" for an equivalent for a late millenial).

The music was better, the cereal crunched better, all your friends lived nearby & were always free to hang out, the TV shows were made for your eyes and talking about your dreams was the thing you did without any irony.

Also there was a lot that affected you that you just didn't know yet. You weren't even aware of your ignorance & all knowledge was just within reach.

> I didn’t think about wage gaps, redlining, gerrymandering, or the intricacies of romantic encounters.

> Things weren’t fluid and there was no spectrum. I assumed the police were telling the truth. I was unaware of how frequently powerful men answered the door wearing nothing but a towel.

Oh, there was definitely a spectrum (Rain Man came out in the 80s). Rodney King was before the iPhone. LBJ was already showing people how everything in Texas was bigger (Doris Kearns Goodwin has a laugh about it, but we'll never know if she cringed).

I'm too young to remember all this, because it was before my time, but I sort of went into the part 2 of "We didn't start the fire" here.

19 minutes ago by m0ngr31

I've been working my way through Seinfeld, and I realized most of the plot lines couldn't have happened if cell phones were commonplace back then.

14 minutes ago by mateo411

There's a modern Seinfeld twitter account, which has a bunch of zany plot lines that are only possible in the smart phone era.

8 minutes ago by austinl

Wanted to share the link just because I love this account as well: https://twitter.com/SeinfeldToday

A recent example:

George's GF wants a "no phones at dinner" rule. G: "We had a good thing going, Jerry! Now we're supposed to talk? That can only end badly!

10 minutes ago by jeffbee

You know, that's another thing that has changed a lot. Modern TV writer just can't stop himself from using the mobile phone as a device to advance the story. We have to watch some guy in a TV show sending iMessages. That is so boring, and as a caveman from the pre-cellular era it takes me out of the show and makes me want to turn it off. A recent offender in this regard was the Amazon show "Bosch". If you made a supercut of the titular detective answering his iPhone, it would be almost as long as the series itself. This is particularly irritating since the Bosch novels were written in the 90s, before the smartphone era, in the car-phone era at the latest.

22 minutes ago by kernoble

The unmentioned thing here is why? Why does the world with a smartphone and today's hyper-connectivity seem so different now compared to what it used to?

Did people feel the same way when the railroad and other forms of rapid transport showed up?

What makes things feel so different? Is it more competition, and for what? Is it that things are just faster, and the certainties have changed? Has it fundamentally changed how we experience relationships with people?

Are our standards now higher, and is that a good thing?

5 minutes ago by Damogran6

I still occasionally marvel that I can wake up at 4:30am in Denver and be in Very Rural Virginia by 5pm...and that's with stopping over in Atlanta first.

It's not the travel, or the time, it's the 'it's more efficient to go thousands of miles out of the way due to logistics.'

This has not been particularly new, but I can still marvel at it.

Having fixed plumbing, I'm reminded that the current iteration is as a result of 2000 years of refinement.

I have a lathe, manufactured in 1966, it still holds tolerances, and I refer to a book (how to run a lathe) that's first printing was at the turn of the 20th century (1912 or thereabouts)

Old stuff is remarkable, too.

11 minutes ago by mojuba

Something I've been wondering about lately:

In the pre-Internet era, rumors, incidents, conspiracies, book and movie opinions were passed on verbally. I saw an article nobody else in my circle ever read; a friend watched a movie nobody else is going to see any time soon, etc. There were endless opportunities to get together and talk.

We were each other's Internets.

Do people talk less these days? I certainly do but that might be due to my age. But I'm genuinely curious if the topics of conversations are as intellectually fulfilling as they used to be.

38 minutes ago by Ajay-p

I have never truly known a period of time without a smart device. The last watch I had was when I was a small child and it was only a few years ago I found a street "atlas". I have a feeling that I've missed a building block of the digital age by not experiencing an evolutionary phase.

32 minutes ago by quartesixte

The pre-LTE era was quite the experience as a teenager, and it wasn’t until the iPhone 5 when smartphones became a ubiquitous and affordable thing (or justifiable) for many of my friends. I didn’t have a smartphone until my junior year of high school!

SMS feature phones like the sidekick, with physical keyboards, ruled the day and many of my classmates actually disliked smartphones because of the lack of physical keys!

13 minutes ago by 4gotunameagain

Aligning the infrared ports of two phones until max speed was achieved and being extremely careful to not move them for minutes which felt like ages to just send over a polyphonic ringtone..

And if the bell rung, well, you were out of luck

30 minutes ago by tboyd47

You can always go back, any time! Get a dumb phone.

It's great. Engage with others more authentically, more meaningfully, and more consistently.

a minute ago by spywaregorilla

I have a friend who did that. It's pretty irritating trying to remember his unique constraints on communication that I need to know in order to reach him.

Some people conflate authenticity for interactions with others who are willing to go way out of their way to spend time with you.

24 minutes ago by whynotminot

You can go back, but you’re going back alone.

12 minutes ago by sdevonoes

Nothing wrong about that :)

11 minutes ago by lubujackson

You can't go back though, not really. Like if you got lost pre-smartphones you would find a gas station and the person there would rattle off a series of turns you had to memorize on the spot or would pull out an atlas and walk you through directions - this was normal. Now, they would look at you like an alien.

There was a culture of nudging people along to the right place. Even as a kid you would be asked for directions from time to time and have to sort out how many blocks to go before the next turn and all that, often without ever having seen an actual map of your own town.

6 minutes ago by tboyd47

Yes, you can. I did. I do fine. I'm happy with my choice :)

26 minutes ago by varrock

This is great from a social aspect, but society favors having a smart phone to get things done. The cons might outweigh the pros from my perspective.

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